The biggest lie in self-help is this: You don’t “find” yourself. People spend their whole lives searching, as if who they are is buried somewhere far away. But you’re not hidden treasure... You’re not waiting under a rock to be discovered. You don’t find yourself. You invent yourself. That’s why the Torah says: לא בשמים היא It’s not in Heaven. Not distant. It’s right here; in your mouth, your heart, your action. Life isn’t about discovering who you are. It’s about tearing away the false picture,

It’s wild how much harder you have to work when you don’t fit the image people expect. You can have the degrees, the experience, the accomplishments, and the systems around you will still question your intelligence, your belonging, and your capability. And for so long, I believed them. I internalized every comment, every micro-aggression, every moment someone made me feel like I had to “prove” what I already earned. This video is for anyone who grew up being underestimated, POC, women, first-gen